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Facebook Campaign for Positive Change in Families

Eliminate Cling-ons (Disqualifiers)

Whanau Marama’s Facebook Campaign

Eunmi from Whanau Marama writes, “I was pretty bad at saying cling-on’s to others including my child. When my child showed me her drawing or homework or writing, I used to say “Well done or good, but it doesn’t look like your best.” Or “I can see you have tried hard, but I don’t think it is very good.” Some times I’ve even added “I think you should find something you are better at.”

I did not realize what I said was hurting my child’s feelings. She was only trying to show me what she had done. How I responded prevented my child from connecting with me. I thought I was giving her good advice. I just wanted her to do better. I was wrong. It had the effect on my child that she did not want to show me what she had done any more.

Sometimes we inadvertently punish good behaviour like I did. This can lead to our child feeling discounted and often quite angry. In our parenting course, we call this a “cling-on”. So let’s eliminate cling-ons out of our vocabulary. Let us become more aware of the times we are saying cling-on’s and then try not to say them again. We can make our children smile. We can make a positive change in our family.”

Please share the group with your friends on Facebook.
http://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/351148201563452/

Big White Wall Launched

ADHB Media Release
November 1, 2012
Online mental health service a Kiwi first

ADHB has become the first health organisation in New Zealand to roll-out a free online self-help service aimed at improving emotional wellbeing for people in need.

Known as Big White Wall, the service is aimed at people aged 16-plus who are experiencing a mild-to-moderate mental health problem. It has helped 8500 people in the UK to date.

“Users can log on and access the service at any time, 24 hours-a-day, allowing self-help, peer support and further help where needed,” said Robert Ford, ADHB Planning and Funding Manager for Mental Health and Addictions.

“This is an innovative way of reaching out to help people in need of support and ADHB is proud to be leading the way for our community.

“The service provides safe, anonymous support and operates on social media principles allowing online users to have control over how much information they share and with whom.

“Big White Wall fosters a supportive online environment focusing on recovery and wellness that allows people having a tough time to befriend others with common experiences without fear of stigma.”

The service provides an early intervention system as soon as an issue arises and can also be used as a support for people with severe mental illness to keep them out of hospital.

It offers a range of clinically-informed interventions to improve mental wellbeing and is staffed by mental health professionals who ensure the full engagement, safety and anonymity of members.

“One-in-four of us will experience anxiety, depression or other common mental health problems during our lives,” Mr Ford said.

“It can be hard to talk about worries or concerns, usually for fear of what others may think, so asking for help can be difficult. Now there is an option available for people within the ADHB healthcare population area who may not yet feel ready to make a formal appointment with a mental health service.”

People can self-refer if they have a post code within the ADHB area or can be referred by GPs, clinical services or relevant non-government organisations.

Activities and services include:

Talkabouts: Members can talk to others in the Big White Wall community who share similar experiences. They can also engage with Wall Guides (counsellors), who are online at all times to ensure everyone is safe on Big White Wall.

Distress tests: Members can take ‘distress tests’; find out more about topics ranging from anxiety and depression, to coping with redundancy and alcohol problems. They can also find out more to help them understand their worries and concerns and how to move forward.

Creative art and writing therapies: It can sometimes be difficult putting feelings into words. Members can vent and express how they feel in images by making ‘Bricks’ on The Wall.

For more information, go to www.bigwhitewall.com

ENDS

For further information, please contact Robert Ford on 021 985 965.

New Psychotherapy Awareness Initiative from APA

The American Psychological Association has produced some videos to help educate the public that psychotherapy is effective in treating mental health issues – sometimes more so than drugs.

Click here to check them out and share them around. 

Engage Group Full for 2012

Engage Group is a free education and support programme for people of any age who struggle with the limiting effects of anxiety in any form.

The next programme gets underway at Youthline in Ponsonby, Auckland on Wednesday October 3rd with a full group who will spend the next ten weeks together exploring ways to overcome anxiety and supporting each other through.

Enrolments are now closed for 2012. But to make sure you don’t miss out on the opportunity to enrol next year, contact Youthline’s special services centre on (09) 361 4168 or services@youthline.co.nz to add yourself to the waitlist.

More information can be found on the Engage Aotearoa website at the following link:

www.engagenz.co.nz/?page_id=85 

Nationwide Subsidised Gym Memberships to Get NZ Active!

Engage Group Now FREE!!! Starts 3 October 2012

Youthline and Community Mental-Health Resources Trust are pleased to announce enrolments for Engage Group are now open for 2012 and participation is entirely free.

Spaces are limited to 8 participants – first in, first served.

Find the full information pack and eligibility criteria online here or phone Youthline for further information.

100 Coping Strategies in The Coping Kete

The Coping Kete on the Engage Aotearoa website reached a milestone on the 9th of June with the publication of the One Hundredth Weekly Coping Strategy in the online kete.

Use The Coping Kete to learn new strategies online and then add them to your Personal Coping Kete for use when the going gets tough.

Engage Aotearoa have been posting a new strategy every week for the past 100 weeks. That’s nearly two years worth of new coping strategies for people who are wanting to improve their mental health and wellbeing. There are still many more to come.

Also on the horizons is The Coping Kete Handbook, a paperback collection of the first 100 strategies with some extra background information and reflection exercises.

 

Online NZ Peer Support Programme Launched

www.peerzone.co.nz

PeerZone is shared learning for wellbeing, designed and delivered by and for people with experience of mental distress.  It is a series of three hour peer facilitated face-to-face sessions (learning packages) where participants engage in mutual support, deepen their understanding of their experience and develop tools for wellbeing in all the major life domains. The face-to-face groups are backed up by online resources and a chat facility.

PeerZone is aimed at working age people, particularly younger people with severe mental distress. Their vision is that by the end of this decade, everyone who uses mental health services will be offered some kind of peer led learning and support opportunity.

Mary O’Hagan and Sara McCook Weir developed PeerZone. The learning packages were developed in 2010-2011 and they were piloted in 2011 in Wellington, New Zealand. In 2012 they will organise the initial orientation for facilitators, launch the website, and work to establish PeerZone in New Zealand.

 

Play Computer Games to Combat Depression

SPARX Self-Help Computer Programme

SPARX is a self-help computer programme for young people with symptoms of depression. The programme has been funded by the Ministry of Health and developed by a University of Auckland team which specialises in treating adolescent depression. Check out the award winning game here http://www.sparx.org.nz/